The End Of A Relationship

The end of a relationship can be a hard topic for many of us, but it is also necessary one to talk about, sometimes you just have to let go and if it needs to be done it's better to be fast. Make this the moment that you find your strength.

We have all had those co-dependent relationships where both parties are obtaining some gain from the time spent together, but inevitably one party will always end up being hurt.

It feels good you think you are on the road to somewhere, you think you have found someone who has a common interest, someone you can connect to, someone who you can trust and can confide in. But in the end, you get that dreaded feeling that there will be an end.

I don’t think anyone wakes up thinking, today I will hurt and emotionally cripple someone who cares about me, they are just too involved in their reality to realise what they are doing.

It’s a constant tug of war because there is something about you that makes them feel good, something about how it makes them feel about themselves when they are with you. Something about their life that they like when you're in it, something about a moment in time that is better just from you being part of it. But you're just not the one, You are not the person that has everything. Your, not the person that they would take risks for, move mountains for, desire to have in their arms for eternity. And if you're not that one, that is not for you to argue. Maybe you want them to be the one for the wrong reasons; maybe the other person sees what deep down you already know,  You're just not meant to be together in a relationship.

We all have needs, sexual, intellectual, emotional, we open ourselves up to people because one, some or all of those necessities need to be met, and they, for the most part, are filling those needs. We are giving a piece of ourselves to another trusting that they have our best interest as well as they're own at heart.

In some cases,  this is misguided trust because; damaged people can damage others. So now comes the hard part, I love you, but I’m letting you go.

I am letting go because you don’t think of me when I'm not in front of you.

I am letting you go because you don’t message or call first

I am letting you go because you don’t make time for me

I am letting you go because I am a secret in your life

I am letting go because you can't let go of your past

I am letting go because I won't be what you settle for

I am letting you go because you should be with someone else

I am letting you go because we just won't work

I am letting you go because we have no trust

I am letting you go because you are not my happiness

I am letting you go because you hurt me

I am letting you go because I don’t connect to you

I am letting you go because, I deserve better than what you are offering

I am letting go because you are my friend, and I want you to stay that way forever

I am letting you go because life is short

I am letting go because even tho your afraid to admit it you need me to, I now need to say, no more! We need to seek what brings us joy; we need not feel as tho our emotions and feelings are a burden but be the reason a person smiles each day and as I am not the source of your smile I am not the owner of your heart. I don’t need to ask you to let me go anymore; I am telling you I am not yours. 

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