That Moment!

That moment when you realise the condom is no longer where it should be, on his penis. I am not sure how often or even how many times others have experienced this but, this has happened to me on a few occasions  through my sexual life so far. You place a condom on his penis or he does and well during sex or at the end you realise it is no longer still there. You search and search and can’t find the condom, there is only one place left and that is in your vagina. Placing fingers up into your vagina to feel for the lost condom is one of those moments in sex that is awkward, embarrassing and worrying especially after he has cum.

The first time this happened to me I dealt with it with laughter; it was the only way I can deal with it. We searched the room top to bottom like three times I even tried to feel for it inside my vagina. Sheets got ripped off, blankets went flying, we even searched under the bed. The moment came and we looked at each other and he said, “well there is only one place left and it must be there”. I looked at him with laughter and said, “I guess your right”, so I placed my fingers for the second time in my vagina and searched for the condom, I find it. I express this to my partner of the time but I am unable to reach it to pull it out. He gives it a try with no success, he is feeling terrible about the fact we have lost a condom up my vagina. I start to laugh and make jokes about the whole situation, he replies, “why are you laughing?” I replied with “it’s either this or I cry”. The next day I made an appointment with my Dr to have the condom removed. While I awaited the appointment, my best friend and I made jokes about it all day the man involved called and text to check in to see if I have been to my appointment and to see how I am going. Cracking jokes was my coping mechanism and although he didn’t completely understand but was glad I was ok and coping with the situation. The next time he and I had sex well, we both was paranoid and it was a close call. I am not sure why this happened with us but it did.

A couple years later and a new sex partner, it happens again I couldn’t believe it, this time, I stayed calm and went straight to feel inside my vagina. I found the condom and managed to pull it out. He couldn’t believe it happened and I said "well it has been known to happen and it’s not the first time". This time, the experience wasn’t awkward or embarrassing why should it? It’s something I have learnt that can happen for whatever the reason. Maybe it's something to do with the position or the tightness against their thickness I can’t say which or even what it is but I can say it happens and it’s something every girl and guy should be aware of and conscious of.

These are the awkward moments during a sex life that creates memories to remember, not only that but plenty of laughter or tears. I still use condoms and I now stop and check occasionally to make sure the condom is where it is meant to be. I love reflecting on that moment for many reasons not just because it makes me laugh but that moment was with someone special to me. Awkward moments like this I can’t wait to tell my children about when they are older and ready to hear. Remember if it’s happened to you then its most likely has happened to many others who you know. Sex is a beautiful and exciting thing that should be shared experienced and spoken about.

Don’t forget to check out our website to read many of the stories all told to us by our readers. Recently added was the Knock Knock story told from the male’s perspective. Enjoy and appreciate the joys of sex.

Knock Knock

He knocked at her door; she answered the door naked..... To find out the-the story behind this we highly recommend you head over to our website and read the knock knock post.

Our first story for the year, so we hope you enjoy it and look forward to hearing your feedback, hearing of your stories and any other news. 

We are looking forward to sharing more stories with you through our website along with many exciting blogs to come.

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Festives Wishes

Here at The 'S' Word we hope that you all have had a wonderful time over the festive season. We hope it has been filled with all the fantastic The 'S' Word things you desire and that there have been plenty of wonderful stories been made. Ones you may even wish to share with all of us here at The 'S' Word. 


2015 is almost over and we are about to head into a new year here at the s word we wish you a safe and happy new year. With the new year there will be exciting new things coming to The 'S' Word, we are looking forward to sharing this with you.

We are looking forward to hearing of your adventures from over the festive and new year seasons and well into the year. We love hearing of your stories and hope to hear plenty more in the coming year.

Safe travels and celebrations and we will see you in the new year.

Keeping Up!

We all know how much I love sex and how much I want sex if you are a regular reader that is, so does it surprise you as it did me that I find it hard to find men that can keep up with me and my sex drive? Well, I do and it’s very frustrating to say the least. If I wasn’t on my menstrual cycle I crave sex daily and of high volume too and men when I start seeing them are surprised by this. I mentioned how often I have sex on an average in my post about addicted to sex, some days I have sex up to 5 times a day this doesn’t always satisfy me either especially when it is great sex I seem just to crave it more.

I lay there after a long session of around 45 minutes and my recent sex partner of looks at me and smiles and says, “you must be satisfied by now right?” my reply often is “no, I could go again right now”. He is amused and shocked all at the same time and often replies with “that was 45-minute session and round 3” I often laugh at him and reply with “your point is?” This isn’t the only man that I get that kind of reaction from, over the years, I have had a few sexual partners on a regular basis and often shocked that they are unable to satisfy me for too long. I guess for a man this could make them feel inadequate but from where I sit, it shouldn’t matter at all. I just crave more and more sex as the more I get, but not only that having great I want more.

In my circle of friends which we already know of, aren’t as open to sex as I am. Being so aware of their sex drives and knowing they are far less than mine, this makes me wonder am I different or am I more common than I realise. I do know men often get surprised by how often I think of sex, but not only that how often I would like to have sex daily. These men when I first start talking to them are all eager to prove that they can keep up with me. More often than not men are proven wrong. I find this particularly challenging to maintain any kind of relationship as men have egos and when they are hurt, they are not happy souls. I can’t blame them for feeling and reacting this way, after all, men have a reputation to uphold.

I often find myself needing to have multiple sexual partners to keep up with my drive. Not only most men struggle to keep up with my drive, finding shared free time isn’t always easy. They have lives and so do I. Finding a sex partner that matches my spare time isn’t always easy. Keeping my own sex drive and desires satisfied I often need more than one man. Is this a reflection on their performance? Definitely not the men I allow into my life for sex, these men are impressive and can satisfy most women.

To all the men out there, it is ok if you can’t keep up with girls like me we aren’t your average woman. Remember it doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you, it means we are the exception to the rule. I am ok if a man can’t keep up with me as long as he puts the effort in and makes sex enjoyable than I am happy and satisfied in the other important ways. The problem for me arises when like recently a man tells me he loves sex and has no problem trying to keep up with me but then in truth is so far from the ability. This man didn’t need sex for weeks and I was going crazy as a loyal girl I am didn’t stray and stayed faithful. This was the hardest of times for my sex every few weeks or when I tantrums was not my desired sex life. Guys if this is you and you meet women like me then just be honest with her because it is better now then leaving a lady that has a high sex drive hanging for too long they can become angry. I do understand that everyone has a different sex drive levels and this is great, men who want it occasionally should be proud of that those who love it a lot should be too just remember not to give out false interpretations of your desires.

Women like me should be proud that we are sexually and that sex is valued. I will never shy away from this part of me because this is who I am and I like this part of me. I do believe I will find my sexual match in time but in the meantime, I will enjoy searching. Every sexual partner is a great new adventure that I can’t wait to experience. Sex to us is an important part of a relationship, we need to be compatible and very well matched sex drives, the day I find someone that can truly keep up will be a glorious day. As I search, I will continue the enjoying the sex with multi men when needed.

Amsterdam Part 2 - Stacy's Story

Amsterdam Part 2
Stacy's Story

We have all heard Fran's version of events of the night spent in Amsterdam. If you haven't yet, best have a read of the nights events from Fran's point of view. You are sure missing out and should check it out. 

It is time for Stacy's steamy version of the night's events. This is sure put some spice into a holiday the girls won't forget any time soon. One they will look back and remember for a lifetime.

Steamy and Hot

Stacy's Story Awaits You!

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The next story instalment is one that starts with a knock at the door. Keep your eyes peeled for a surprising story that won't be just a knock at the door but it will knock your socks off.

Addicted to sex!

Following on from my post about talking sex, I reflected on previous conversations I have had over the years with both my male and female friends. I am finding myself to be one of the few in my circle that loves sex so much I could say I have become addicted to it. Conversation directions and others views have made me stop and think about how I feel about sex and what I feel is enough for me. My conclusion is that I have become addicted to sex! While writing this blog I then thought, what is the meaning of sex addiction and am I truly addicted.

Through my research I thought it would be a good thing to see if I was a sex addict given my high sex drive and desire. During this research, I discovered a website that allowed me to take a test to determine if I was a sex addict, well it turns out with no surprise, I do have a sex addiction. Am I concerned regarding these results? Completely not! Am I going to seek any help for it? Completely not! I am happy with who I am and know that my love of sex does not impact poorly on my family, friends and job. However, I do feel it has impacted on my relationships with potential partners and prevents me from forming any kind actual relationship outside a sexual one. 

The more I read, the more I realise sex addiction is like any other addiction and the reasons behind it are varied just as much as the levels of the addiction. I may feel I have a sex addiction you may too, should we be concerned about this? Well, that is dependent on the individual. My addiction to sex makes me crave it even stronger, and if I am unable to obtain sex, I turn to masturbation, both things are perfectly normal and cause no problem. If you are worried that you have a problem with sex addiction and finding that it impacts on your relationships with family, friends, job and if you are taking risks especially of the illegal kind seeking professional help for advice.

The average amount a person has sex is……. I don't think it matters what the average is to be completely honest with you, why should it matter how much sex your friends are having or your co-workers because at the end of the day the amount of sex you have matters only to yourself. For me, I average two times a day given some days are more, and some are less depending on what is going on in my life and the availability and desire of the sexual partners I have. Within relationships, the average should take into account both persons and finding common ground, and a happy medium.This will create a satisfying and long-term relationship. I am satisfied with the amount of sex, although sometimes, I wish it was more given I am a sex addict. Surprisingly there aren't many men who can keep up with me.

If I am not having enough sex or not having gratifying sex then, I become agitated and irritable. My friends notice this, and one particular reminds me that there is no crime in having sex. "So find a willing man and get your sex on". We often laugh and joke about how snappy I get when I am not having sex or even gratifying sex. One day my friend was telling me about a conversation she had with a man trying to obtain sex with her. She explained that she wasn't a woman that seeks random sex with men in which he replied  "everyone needs sex", my friends reply was "no one has died from not having sex". My response to this conversation was "I may be the exception to the rule".

I will put it out there I love sex, and I love talking about sex, not to mention having it and learning as much as I can about the topic. I do not have an issue with my sex addiction. I can say I am sexually satisfied when I have great sex. Am I addicted to great sex? Yes, I am, and I have no shame saying I am because I embrace who I am, and I am embracing my love of sex. My addiction is only satisfied with great sex, and this can be hard to come by, but it sure is something I love to hold onto when I do find it. Embrace who you are and your love of sex, as I said earlier if it becomes a problem, my advice is seek professional help and just be honest to the professionals about your concerns and why.

Talking Sex!

As I sit here today talking to my friend about sex, it occurs to me that many people from around the world are most likely doing exactly the same thing with their friends, colleagues or with anyone that they are comfortable exploring the topic with. 

And Why not? I personly find it easy to talk about sex, and quite frankly anyone could ask me almost anything about sex and the majority of the time I will talk about it quite openly and candidly. The ease of openness I have with this topic is not always as easy for others. I have a friend who is far from at ease talking about sex, in fact, she often can't even say the word sex without going red and breaking into a tiny giggle her discomfort and anxiety evident in her red face and bumbled words. I have noticed she can speak more candidly to me when we are alone but to anyone else she is shy and nervous. I don't think this is a problem at all; it directly relates back to how she was taught to view sex, a topic we have previously referred to as the guilty sex disorder. 

As for me I don't have such problems, Yes, you will find me talking about sex in public, I have no problem with it, tho some of my friends refer to it as my lack of filter. I don't even care who is around me I feel no sense of embarrassment towards the topic at all. I am so unfazed by this subject that once while in a supermarket buying condoms with a guy I was having sex with, I unknowingly announced to the surrounding patrons that he possessed a well above average penis, actually he had the fortuity of being hung like a horse, but that's a whole other blog. He, unfortunately, is much like my friend and found this uncomfortable, evidently was much little less open about the subject matter in public or in general, unless extremely comfortable with the person who he was engaging with about the subject. He was blessed to have an above average size penis and as a result needed above average sized condoms XXL to be precise. I excitedly showed him his options but apparently I was too loud in my enthusiasm, he went bright red and said "there are old people just there" I replied with a smirk, "these look big enough, it's the biggest they have, and hey at least these kind people know we are responsible and protecting ourselves". I winked at him, but I could tell he was infact completely mortified.

In this world where sex is everywhere so many of us are still so shy about the subject, and it is still often a taboo subject. I understand religion and culture have played their part in how sex is perceived, along with how we are raised and our insecurity and views, but that does not mean I understand it. I embrace sex; I love sex I am not embarrassed, sex is natural and beautiful, and I will continue to encourage others to find pride and acceptance in their sexuality.
There is nothing wrong with loving sex, and there is nothing wrong with being modest, we are who we are.

Embrace the level of your comfort on the subject of sex, stick to where you feel comfortable and be proud of who you are, as long as you are enjoying it its all good, because you must be doing it right.