Tuesday 29 December 2015

Festives Wishes

Here at The 'S' Word we hope that you all have had a wonderful time over the festive season. We hope it has been filled with all the fantastic The 'S' Word things you desire and that there have been plenty of wonderful stories been made. Ones you may even wish to share with all of us here at The 'S' Word. 


2015 is almost over and we are about to head into a new year here at the s word we wish you a safe and happy new year. With the new year there will be exciting new things coming to The 'S' Word, we are looking forward to sharing this with you.

We are looking forward to hearing of your adventures from over the festive and new year seasons and well into the year. We love hearing of your stories and hope to hear plenty more in the coming year.

Safe travels and celebrations and we will see you in the new year.



Saturday 12 December 2015

Keeping Up!




We all know how much I love sex and how much I want sex if you are a regular reader that is, so does it surprise you as it did me that I find it hard to find men that can keep up with me and my sex drive? Well, I do and it’s very frustrating to say the least. If I wasn’t on my menstrual cycle I crave sex daily and of high volume too and men when I start seeing them are surprised by this. I mentioned how often I have sex on an average in my post about addicted to sex, some days I have sex up to 5 times a day this doesn’t always satisfy me either especially when it is great sex I seem just to crave it more.

I lay there after a long session of around 45 minutes and my recent sex partner of looks at me and smiles and says, “you must be satisfied by now right?” my reply often is “no, I could go again right now”. He is amused and shocked all at the same time and often replies with “that was 45-minute session and round 3” I often laugh at him and reply with “your point is?” This isn’t the only man that I get that kind of reaction from, over the years, I have had a few sexual partners on a regular basis and often shocked that they are unable to satisfy me for too long. I guess for a man this could make them feel inadequate but from where I sit, it shouldn’t matter at all. I just crave more and more sex as the more I get, but not only that having great I want more.

In my circle of friends which we already know of, aren’t as open to sex as I am. Being so aware of their sex drives and knowing they are far less than mine, this makes me wonder am I different or am I more common than I realise. I do know men often get surprised by how often I think of sex, but not only that how often I would like to have sex daily. These men when I first start talking to them are all eager to prove that they can keep up with me. More often than not men are proven wrong. I find this particularly challenging to maintain any kind of relationship as men have egos and when they are hurt, they are not happy souls. I can’t blame them for feeling and reacting this way, after all, men have a reputation to uphold.

I often find myself needing to have multiple sexual partners to keep up with my drive. Not only most men struggle to keep up with my drive, finding shared free time isn’t always easy. They have lives and so do I. Finding a sex partner that matches my spare time isn’t always easy. Keeping my own sex drive and desires satisfied I often need more than one man. Is this a reflection on their performance? Definitely not the men I allow into my life for sex, these men are impressive and can satisfy most women.

To all the men out there, it is ok if you can’t keep up with girls like me we aren’t your average woman. Remember it doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you, it means we are the exception to the rule. I am ok if a man can’t keep up with me as long as he puts the effort in and makes sex enjoyable than I am happy and satisfied in the other important ways. The problem for me arises when like recently a man tells me he loves sex and has no problem trying to keep up with me but then in truth is so far from the ability. This man didn’t need sex for weeks and I was going crazy as a loyal girl I am didn’t stray and stayed faithful. This was the hardest of times for my sex every few weeks or when I tantrums was not my desired sex life. Guys if this is you and you meet women like me then just be honest with her because it is better now then leaving a lady that has a high sex drive hanging for too long they can become angry. I do understand that everyone has a different sex drive levels and this is great, men who want it occasionally should be proud of that those who love it a lot should be too just remember not to give out false interpretations of your desires.


Women like me should be proud that we are sexually and that sex is valued. I will never shy away from this part of me because this is who I am and I like this part of me. I do believe I will find my sexual match in time but in the meantime, I will enjoy searching. Every sexual partner is a great new adventure that I can’t wait to experience. Sex to us is an important part of a relationship, we need to be compatible and very well matched sex drives, the day I find someone that can truly keep up will be a glorious day. As I search, I will continue the enjoying the sex with multi men when needed.


Wednesday 25 November 2015

Amsterdam Part 2 - Stacy's Story

Amsterdam Part 2
Stacy's Story




We have all heard Fran's version of events of the night spent in Amsterdam. If you haven't yet, best have a read of the nights events from Fran's point of view. You are sure missing out and should check it out

It is time for Stacy's steamy version of the night's events. This is sure put some spice into a holiday the girls won't forget any time soon. One they will look back and remember for a lifetime.


The S Word sure won't disappoint you. If you have a story you would like to see published please head over to our website, Contact us and we will take a look edit and publish anonymously for you.

The next story instalment is one that starts with a knock at the door. Keep your eyes peeled for a surprising story that won't be just a knock at the door but it will knock your socks off.

Thursday 19 November 2015

Addicted to sex!


Following on from my post about talking sex, I reflected on previous conversations I have had over the years with both my male and female friends. I am finding myself to be one of the few in my circle that loves sex so much I could say I have become addicted to it. Conversation directions and others views have made me stop and think about how I feel about sex and what I feel is enough for me. My conclusion is that I have become addicted to sex! While writing this blog I then thought, what is the meaning of sex addiction and am I truly addicted.

Through my research I thought it would be a good thing to see if I was a sex addict given my high sex drive and desire. During this research, I discovered a website that allowed me to take a test to determine if I was a sex addict, well it turns out with no surprise, I do have a sex addiction. Am I concerned regarding these results? Completely not! Am I going to seek any help for it? Completely not! I am happy with who I am and know that my love of sex does not impact poorly on my family, friends and job. However, I do feel it has impacted on my relationships with potential partners and prevents me from forming any kind actual relationship outside a sexual one. 

The more I read, the more I realise sex addiction is like any other addiction and the reasons behind it are varied just as much as the levels of the addiction. I may feel I have a sex addiction you may too, should we be concerned about this? Well, that is dependent on the individual. My addiction to sex makes me crave it even stronger, and if I am unable to obtain sex, I turn to masturbation, both things are perfectly normal and cause no problem. If you are worried that you have a problem with sex addiction and finding that it impacts on your relationships with family, friends, job and if you are taking risks especially of the illegal kind seeking professional help for advice.

The average amount a person has sex is……. I don't think it matters what the average is to be completely honest with you, why should it matter how much sex your friends are having or your co-workers because at the end of the day the amount of sex you have matters only to yourself. For me, I average two times a day given some days are more, and some are less depending on what is going on in my life and the availability and desire of the sexual partners I have. Within relationships, the average should take into account both persons and finding common ground, and a happy medium.This will create a satisfying and long-term relationship. I am satisfied with the amount of sex, although sometimes, I wish it was more given I am a sex addict. Surprisingly there aren't many men who can keep up with me.

If I am not having enough sex or not having gratifying sex then, I become agitated and irritable. My friends notice this, and one particular reminds me that there is no crime in having sex. "So find a willing man and get your sex on". We often laugh and joke about how snappy I get when I am not having sex or even gratifying sex. One day my friend was telling me about a conversation she had with a man trying to obtain sex with her. She explained that she wasn't a woman that seeks random sex with men in which he replied  "everyone needs sex", my friends reply was "no one has died from not having sex". My response to this conversation was "I may be the exception to the rule".

I will put it out there I love sex, and I love talking about sex, not to mention having it and learning as much as I can about the topic. I do not have an issue with my sex addiction. I can say I am sexually satisfied when I have great sex. Am I addicted to great sex? Yes, I am, and I have no shame saying I am because I embrace who I am, and I am embracing my love of sex. My addiction is only satisfied with great sex, and this can be hard to come by, but it sure is something I love to hold onto when I do find it. Embrace who you are and your love of sex, as I said earlier if it becomes a problem, my advice is seek professional help and just be honest to the professionals about your concerns and why.



Thursday 5 November 2015

Talking Sex!





As I sit here today talking to my friend about sex, it occurs to me that many people from around the world are most likely doing exactly the same thing with their friends, colleagues or with anyone that they are comfortable exploring the topic with. 

And Why not? I personly find it easy to talk about sex, and quite frankly anyone could ask me almost anything about sex and the majority of the time I will talk about it quite openly and candidly. The ease of openness I have with this topic is not always as easy for others. I have a friend who is far from at ease talking about sex, in fact, she often can't even say the word sex without going red and breaking into a tiny giggle her discomfort and anxiety evident in her red face and bumbled words. I have noticed she can speak more candidly to me when we are alone but to anyone else she is shy and nervous. I don't think this is a problem at all; it directly relates back to how she was taught to view sex, a topic we have previously referred to as the guilty sex disorder. 

As for me I don't have such problems, Yes, you will find me talking about sex in public, I have no problem with it, tho some of my friends refer to it as my lack of filter. I don't even care who is around me I feel no sense of embarrassment towards the topic at all. I am so unfazed by this subject that once while in a supermarket buying condoms with a guy I was having sex with, I unknowingly announced to the surrounding patrons that he possessed a well above average penis, actually he had the fortuity of being hung like a horse, but that's a whole other blog. He, unfortunately, is much like my friend and found this uncomfortable, evidently was much little less open about the subject matter in public or in general, unless extremely comfortable with the person who he was engaging with about the subject. He was blessed to have an above average size penis and as a result needed above average sized condoms XXL to be precise. I excitedly showed him his options but apparently I was too loud in my enthusiasm, he went bright red and said "there are old people just there" I replied with a smirk, "these look big enough, it's the biggest they have, and hey at least these kind people know we are responsible and protecting ourselves". I winked at him, but I could tell he was infact completely mortified.

In this world where sex is everywhere so many of us are still so shy about the subject, and it is still often a taboo subject. I understand religion and culture have played their part in how sex is perceived, along with how we are raised and our insecurity and views, but that does not mean I understand it. I embrace sex; I love sex I am not embarrassed, sex is natural and beautiful, and I will continue to encourage others to find pride and acceptance in their sexuality.
There is nothing wrong with loving sex, and there is nothing wrong with being modest, we are who we are.

Embrace the level of your comfort on the subject of sex, stick to where you feel comfortable and be proud of who you are, as long as you are enjoying it its all good, because you must be doing it right.

Monday 26 October 2015

Sexual Journey


I was sheltered, and I didn’t want to experience or explore further then missionary. Sadly this is true, why sadly? Well for me it’s sad because the world of sex is so diverse and interesting and something I wish I embraced earlier. I am grateful for finding my feet and exploring my sexuality beyond what I had done up to the age of 31. I was thankful I was able to do this with a man that didn’t push me beyond my comfort level, he was always respectful, and he helped create my now open mind toward sex. Things don’t shock me anymore, and I am very open-minded when it comes to the world of sex.

My sexual desire was not high, and it sure wasn’t interesting I became single and found myself opening up more to the people that were around me. My best friend has always been so open to sex, and I found her knowledge to be extremely helpful, she helped me become more comfortable talking about it and not only that but to seek more information about it. With this new confidence, I also hit the dating sites/apps that are so vastly available these days with access to the internet and with our smartphones it’s amazing. I found myself getting more self-esteem and stepping more outside of my shy self which was so revitalizing and refreshing.

I am so glad I stepped out of this shell of mine, and the comfort of just being at home because I tell you this world sure is just amazing. After a few encounters I found my confidence rise, I couldn’t believe the new person that I was developing into, yes most of the old me was still there that soft, sweet, kind, loyal and caring woman. This other side of sexual desire and need to explore beyond the bounds of the missionary has grown and blossomed creating a confident, strong and more independent women than I was before.

Over the years, I have done and experienced many things, things I hold no shame over. Why, you ask? Well, it’s all part of my journey. I want my kids to know about these experiences. No, not yet but as they age I will talk to them openly and honestly about sex and the things they need to know, if they ask me for mine, I will tell them that was my journey, and you will have your own, but I'm happy to give you my opinions. For now they are kids, and they don’t need to know the full truth about their mums opinions. All of this has sure made me realise if my parents were more open about it and talked to me about sex, my journey would have been different, and I wouldn’t have had the “guilty sex disorder” for so long. I am proud to say I have stepped away from this, and I am me, I am a sexual soul that enjoys what the world of sex has to offer. I have my boundaries and levels of what things I am comfortable with. I have no judgment on others own personal levels, and I refrain from using the slut ‘s’ word because truly if I cast that stone on another then someone who isn’t like me someone who has less of a desire to explore the world of sex could cast that stone on me.

It is amazing how we all take different paths in our lives including our sex journey and that some become quite out there, and others are reserved. Be proud of who you are and always be true to who you are when it comes to your sexual path. I am not an expert on sex, but I am an expert on myself. I am proud to say I have embraced my sexuality and my sexual desires I do choose who I share them with, and I chose how much I chose to share with my friends and family. I hold my head high and I am proud to say I LOVE sex, and my sexual journey has been a wonderful ride of learning and exploring.






Amsterdam Affair Part 1



Part 1 of the Amsterdam affair.


Well, the first story was full of hot steamy passion and thanks to our beautiful traveling girls for our first story.

We think that they not only had a happy ending to their holiday, but they also had a holiday they are not likely to forget.

That story gave us the travel bug for sure. 

Keep your eye open for part 2 of Fran and Stacy’s story where Stacy tells us her version of the night's events.

If you missed the first story, why not catch up follow the link to get your copy and read Fran’s 
sexscapade

http://www.theswordstories.com/#!Amsterdam/gpjbn/562f14360cf2d5c7c8f50191

Thursday 15 October 2015

Secrets exposed

 Ohhh what you want to talk about sex, no that’s not something a good girl does. We sit in the corner drinking tea folding washing, and we only do it to procreate. Come on girls and boys grab your wine kick your feet up and share your stories. Feel liberated feel free, Feel good. and don’t be afraid to say I think sex is bloody awesome.

This blog is for every woman and every man who has ever thought I wonder if these things only ever happen to me. Is this feeling normal? Do I desire too much or too little? These are conversations that we have had many times.

We are two thirty-something-year-old Newcastle women who were separated and thrust into the single market.  We are girls who had limited sexual experience as we had been with our partners from 16 years of age and were committed and faithful. We were missionaries, if you know what we mean and if you’re a bit slow I mean the sex we had been a little unadventurous and was not always good. Although this had not been the fault of our partners more to do with the fact that we were young and still unsure of the morality of sex what was right wrong or appropriate. We felt uncomfortable talking about it and with most of the people around us sex was a taboo subject, even if they would have been fine talking about it, we probably would not have known how to broach the subject.

Our thirty’s have been liberating we are now open with our friends and wonder why we have not always been that way. Our relationships still would have still broken down, but sex with our exes might have been more fulfilling if only we had not been so sexually unaware.
We encourage you not to damage the sex lives of the future generation by putting so much stigmatism on sex. Our children when they come of age, need to be informed, careful but also aware. Sex is a beautiful natural thing that should not be entered into lightly but is a vital part of our human nature, having this knowledge will ensure a healthy sexual attitude and a happy and well-adjusted life.

In saying all of this mum and dad, please read no further as throughout this blog we will be sharing some of our experiences among those of others who have wished to share some of their intimate stories of the "S" word, and yes we have noticed it does also spell sword and there will be stories of those as well.

To the people who have gotten this far and are already red and flustered its ok. Go and have a nice cup of tea we understand, we to would have done just that a few years ago. To everyone else buckle up cause were going for a ride of the sexual kind.

The "S" word,  there different needs for different people. Some need it often some never, and some are little deviates. We would say we have had it all, but then you would call us the other "S" word and to be completely honest it would also be a lie. Hell, we are writing this blog, so you are probably already are, but we know we are not and that we have healthy attitudes towards sex, yes we said. Sex sex sex sex sex. It’s not a bad word it’s a wonderful and exciting word, it’s in our music the books we pretend we don’t read and the movies that we watch. It’s our sexy little secret but let’s stop the hiding and start to be more honest with ourselves and embrace the beauty of this most personal of all the human interactions.

There is a place for all levels of intimacy from the one night stand to the full passion of the honeymoon night. No matter where you are at, in your sexual journey you are at the place that you currently meant to be. It seems that so many people are getting married or are in relationships for the wrong reason. Why are we expected to live in a life of bad sex or dysfunction? Life and sex should be joy and passion, not hurt and resentment.

Men and women have morphed in recent years with the introduction of the internet, in some ways we have become bolder, for example, the selfies and the sword shot, ohhh so many pictures of swords. It amazes us how many men these days have sword pride it’s like hi
Ohhh wow and there’s your sword I don’t even know your name but I know if you’re circumcised or not, and if it’s not sword pictures its bold sex requests. It’s like "hey how you going I only just want to!! I don’t need your name or number I just want to screw!" And were like "hey how you going sorry you can’t get through we also don’t need your name or your number and how about SCREW YOU!" Maybe now and then your answer might be "Hey, how you are going I want just the same as you, so let’s find a room and go at it for a few."
It’s a running joke with us now so how many jackasses tried it this week? We share and compare and go Ohh why did they have to be a jerk I liked that one, or well at least they were good for something.

People! Don't think that because you wait before going all the way people will stick around, they now have got us all figured out and will wait then still run. If someone is not at a stage in their life where they are ready for a committed relationship, they will not be having breakfast. No it's nothing you did it is just the way it is, and really who are you trying to kid you saw it coming, but at the end of the day passion and hormones won out, hey if it felt good don’t knock yourself just look at it as a beautiful human connection that was not meant to be anything more.

Most of the sexual experiences that we have had are often in vaults at the back of our mind and are never shared, but we are about to open the vault and expose all those little “S” word secrets from people's experiences all across the world.

The guilty sex disorder

Sex, it seems it that people should desire sex but not have it because it's somehow morally wrong.

As a child, I was brought up in a religious household and for many years held the belief that I would burn in hell for thinking about sex let alone having it.

It was not until I was older that I realised that sex is a natural part of life.

Unfortunately, I was carrying around an a fear and guilt towards it or as I like to call it a guilty sex disorder.

For manny years, it affected my relationships. Made me a stranger to my body and as my partners had put it had made me a prude.

I thought that it was normal. I thought that everyone felt that way, I thought that it was a shame that was just a part of how we were supposed to feel and act when it came to sex.

 The older I got, the more I felt something inside of me awaken and may things became a lot clearer.

I was supposed to enjoy sex; it was supposed to be beautiful. It was supposed to be fun; it was supposed to be everything, but what it was at the time and that was Rubbish!

How many people out there right now feel judged for their desires. Hated for their opinions or misguided in their attitudes. I would say many, but they are unaware or afraid to confront their issues.

Bad sex is not always the result of a person not being good in bed but can be the effect of a person being uncomfortable or feeling guilty about sex in general.

Deciphering the two can result in helping both parties to have a better sexual experiences and help a damaged party to overcome sexual anxiety.

Sex is supposed to be amazing and fun and not clouded by a guilty sex disorder.

If you feel that this is something you encounter your not alone but it does not have to be that way, seek out help from a sex counsellor or talk to a trusted friend or partner.

Have an awakening and enjoy sex.